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This took me years to work out!
I am sure you have all heard the saying, "Like Attracts Like." "Well if that statement is true and like attracts like then your probably thinking then "why did I bring to me such a terrible relationship?" Then the next thing people get resentful and angry, because what they are thinking in that is that "It's not my fault, I am not bad, so why did bad things happen to me?" Well let me explain: I am going to share with you the biggest secret of all, one that took me years to work out! The secret is that there is no point going over and over thinking about what you're thinking that's causing your problems, that's right, no self analysis, no rehashing the past, no self analyzing! Everything in your world is the direct result of your thinking, what you have been imagining, what you have been afraid of, what you want, what you don't want. What you spend your day thinking about is what you create! So just for a minute STOP! Grab the nearest piece of paper and write down a snapshot list of the things you have thought about this morning. Yes quick, do it now without thinking about it. I dare you! When people generally look at the process of their thinking, and then read this next paragraph, it's like the lights go on in their life. If you have spent all day thinking things like this:
If these are like the thoughts going round in your head, then of course your life is a constant battle the mere fact you are pushing out that energy into the universe is enough to keep on giving it power to create more of the same! "FAR OUT!" - You may be thinking, how on earth am I going to change the way I think about my life? I don't have any money, and I do hate my job, and, and, and................. This is where it takes vigilance, effort and energy, if you want to change your life; you have to make changes, you have to simply CHOOSE and in choosing refocus your thinking to manifest what you want. Right now you may not have the perfect life you dream of, but if you deep down in your core, your heart believe you will never have a good life - then you will never have a good life. Its that simple. People are lucky in love and lucky in life simply because they think in ways of luck and love, they constantly reinforce how lucky they are in the way they think about everything that happens, and do you know what, they keep on being lucky because they think thoughts to reinforce the universe to keep bringing that sort of experience right to their door every day of their lives. From this moment on, how would it be if you could have everything you want! We are talking about constructive thinking where you reframe your perception of life. Constructive thinking which empowers your life, and draws to you positive experiences little by little until you master the simple fact of focusing on happy productive and healthy thoughts! I will give you a simple example; a couple is thinking about buying a home, they have been through a hard time and neither of them has very much money saved. One says to the other, "S.... is selling his house its just what we want but he wants $380 thousand for it, that means we'd have to have 10% deposit and that's $35 thousand. We don't have that so there is no point looking!" he looks miserable with the internal thoughts of, "were never going to get on top and own our own home, were getting too old, life is crap." His partner however is working on changing her thinking to attract more opportunity to her life, her reply is bright and cheery, "It won't hurt to have a look, we may not have $35thousand this week, but who knows what tomorrow may bring. So let's have a look hey?" Do you see how simple it is the husband constantly in his thinking and in the way her verbalizes, reinforces lack and that life will not bring him opportunities, where the woman, is open and optimistic, really believing that anything is possible and everything is probable. She is working with reframing every moment of her life to bring happiness, abundance and opportunities. Like attracts like, what we think grows like seeds in a garden, it is that simple. I woke up this morning thinking what a wonderful day, its Sunday and I don't have to go into the clinic to work, the sun is shining, my husband is about to cook me a wonderful breakfast as he does every Sunday, and I feel fantastic. I reframe my thinking constantly to reaffirm that yes, good things are happening to me, and yes opportunities abound, and yes anything is possible and yes life is happening and its all good. Even the bad is good, because it pushes me to grow it pushes me to change, it makes me confront my limits and I get stronger every day, and happier. In the beginning it takes focus, it takes effort and it takes a whole lot of self awareness, to start the change and reframe your thinking habits. It's so easy for the negative thought patterns to just slip into gear without us knowing they even happened, like; Oh God I am tired, I don't want to go to work, I am so angry with.........., she is a bitch and she is out to get me, good things never happen to me, I am fat, I am getting old, I feel miserable....etc. See how easy the negative can be to creep into your head and push everything you want out the window. Reframing your thought process at first will mean you have to pull yourself up and create positive ways to change sentence structure around. As I said in my first article, if you haven't already read my little book "Starting Over," it's packed full of insight about how to change our reality from negative to positive. The eternal truth of life is that like attracts like, look around you at your circumstances, they are the manifestation of the majority of your thoughts! So its time to take control, and in your mind begin by creating the energy of what you want your life to be. Things to avoid and things to cultivate
Remember the energy you emanate from your thinking will draw to it more of the same. My mother always had a saying, "Misery begets misery!" and she was perfectly right.
So my friends that's enough for you to think about for this article. Watch out for the next episode;
Thoughts Change Lives. Cheers for now Lesley ~ TRUITY.
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