TRUITY Spiritual Mentoring

I don’t believe there are logical answers to explain everything we experience in our daily lives; however, I believe we contribute to everything we experience by giving it power to exist in our minds first.   There is an old saying, that “you experience everything you think about, weather it happens or not.” 

What is meant by this is that by thinking about certain things, you can evoke the emotions, stresses and a mind presence of the very thing you are thinking upon.   Recently Olympic trainers tested the automatic nervous system response of athletes who visualized competing in events.  The physical response was identical to that which would happen if they had actually been competing.  The stress on the body’s organs including blood pressure and pulse were recorded as being equal.   

So when you’re thinking over something in your mind, thinking in positive terms, your body gets a blast of good hormones; And when you’re thinking in negative terms, you get rushes of hormones that in large doses are damaging to the body, such as adrenalin. 

When it comes to relationships, often people are in the true sense "Addicted to Love."  They need that rush of hormones, or they begin to think in ways that reassure them the love is gone, the relationship has gone sour, and that they need to find a new person in their life.  When in fact the truth is, its simply that the "rush" isnt there any more, because our sensors have become accustomed to that person. Its sort of like a drug addict in some ways they keep trying more and more diffrent drugs to get high. 

And when we fall in love essentially, the hormones put us on a high!  Think about it, remember what it was like when you met that special person?  Do you remember the "rush," the racing heart beat, the sense of expectancy? 

One of the interesting things that Quantum physics is now established is that we actually become dependant upon those hormones, just like an addiction. 

People who have had allot of drama in their lives, actually are addicted to drama.  Being in the midst of drama makes them feel alive, and feed their biological addiction.   The big question here for you to ask yourself, is could you possibly be Addicted to the relationships you have been experiencing?

Is it possible that you are addicted and need the drama?

Do you know that 98% of what you worry about, never actually physically happens?  So why do we spend so much time worrying about things?  The answer to that is simply that we see the power of our lives experience in the hands of other people or circumstances.  For example, how many times do you find yourself wondering, “About what someone else will do?”  

People, who achieve outstanding results in life don’t think from the same perspective about their lives, instead they think in terms of “knowing what they will do,” no matter what the other person does.  They come from a different space, a space of empowerment.  Their life is built upon a solid sense of self which does not rely upon another person behaving any way in particular.  They are generally free of emotional involvement in the communication. 

So how do you make that step from being involved in the drama and swimming in a sea of emotions to being clear and concise about who you are and what you want in your circle of influence?   (What do I mean by your circle of influence? ~ It is the area surrounding your life within which you interact and have the power to make changes.

Not everything in life is within your circle of influence.  For example; a bomb going off in some foreign country in most cases is beyond your circle of influence because you are powerless to do anything about it.)  The one thing that is totally within your circle of influence is "How and what ~ you think about your situation and circumstances."