TRUITY Spiritual Mentoring

Hi im Lesley Williams, TRUITY, and today I want to talk to you about true wealth.  True wealth is not just about money, its about relationships, friendships, quality of life, peace of mind and fulfilment, and of course being financially secure that helps.  If you havnt been reaching those goals, if your relationships havnt been as good as they could be, and opportunities keep passing you bye then you might like to read this article.  If your one of those people who give too much then read this, it will help.    

The choices you make will determine your life, direction and not only that but the quality of your life experience. Today I want to talk to my readers about, "doing things right," rather than "doing the easy thing," 

This is so important in life and is something that not many people understand, its often a lot easier to simply do the easy thing, you know, stay in that job you hate, agree with everyone around you and just stay in those comfort zones.  But do you know what, doing the easy thing often isn't the easy path.   It may seem that the decisions you have made avoid confronting your fears, but that's where life comes unstuck.

Do you feel you can do more with your life? Have you always wanted to go that extra mile, follow your dreams; have a life that's fulfilling, and yet things don't seem to work out and you can't figure out why?  Well this might help.

Most seem to struggle with life, it's a fact, and do you know there is one often common but unseen quality that prevents us from becoming all that we can be and more.  How often have you created a drama, or because of your fear chosen in life to take the easy path?  How many times in your life have you chosen not to do the right thing? How many times have you made excuses as to why you couldn't do something, yet you still keep complaining and stay in that zone which doesn't honor that you truly are.  You can justify everything you have chosen in your life if you want, and its ok, it's your life.  But if those choices are based upon an incongruence of harmony and balance then the result is more of the same of what you have already had, and more struggle.

Why does this happen, why is it we don't automatically do things right? The answer to this is a dual sword, firstly we are not taught to be in harmony with our inner self, we don't know how to balance the energy in and the energy out.  Many of us give so much more than we receive, and if we are doing that then of course our lives cant manifest the way they are intended, simply we don't have the energy to attract those opportunities or the energy to fulfill them when they do arise.   Secondly it takes great courage to do the right thing, because doing the right thing often involves being in very uncomfortable places, emotionally, mentally and physically. 

Life doesn't come with a manual, something that guides us to self harmony and balance, and we often love too much or love ourselves to little.  We respond the way people want us to respond, saying yes when we mean no, and in doing that creating an in harmony within our core being.  You might be thinking right now well it's not always easy to say no, and that's true.  It's not easy if you feel guilty about saying no, because then you act emotionally and things get messy and complicated.  To go one step further we act this way when we feel guilty about wanting some space or energy for ourselves, guilt is the prime undermining factor in any relationship even the relationship with ourselves. 

Many years ago a wise man once said to me, "to thy self be true and this is all you require in life."  How right he was, because if we are true to our thoughts, and what we are thinking is in harmony with our words and actions then life is good.  Its when we think one thing and say and do another, that is when we find our lives going completely off track.

When faced with felling out of balance simply do this.  This is something I have learned in my life, I allow myself the grace to step back and look at how my thoughts and actions have been aligned.  If they haven't then it's essential that I find a way to address this, to regain my inner balance. 

It doesn't matter if its feeling uncomfortable about asking for that raise, saying no to my kids, or just allowing myself personal space, I take a moment and ask myself what is the truth of my situation.  Is it that I am choosing to do things right, or am I looking to let my fears rule and do things the easy way?

"Doing things right," = moving forward having your thoughts, emotions, words and actions all aligned, even if it is scary. 

Every moment of your day weather you realize it or not you are faced with hundreds of choices which involve, "doing things right," or "doing things the easy way,"  doing things right requires courage, and that courage involves you having the will and the strength to "stand up and face the battle, and never turn your back and run away." 

Ultimate wealth in life can only come from a basis of Harmony and Balance within you, so find your courage, become who you truly are and stop being that person who is not real.

Many blessings to all, my wish for you all this month is  HARMONY, BALANCE and above all COURAGE.  Go well............TRUITY