TRUITY Spiritual Mentoring

ACHIEVING YOUR DREAM IS ALL A MATTER OF ATTITUDE 

What would you think if I told you that the success you achieve and the life you live is all a matter of Attitude. If you’re not prepared to take risks face your fears then one thing for sure is that your dreams and passions will stay dreams, and one day you might wake up saying "If only I had," or "I wish I had."  

Wealth is more than having a big house, two cars and impressing your friends - much more.  Wealth is having a good life, good friends, good things happening to you; My dad Jim used to say, "Wealth is having one penny a day more than I have to spend, if I have that then I am truly wealthy."  Yet, to me wealth is far more, wealth is about life, relationships, employment, being able to live a daily life that is happy, fulfilling, and enjoying every day. 

Have you ever experienced a moment, you know that moment, I can only compare it to that stunning moment in time, you remember it’s like hitting a tennis ball just perfectly without effort it flies across the court, acing your opponent?    

Life’s fulfillment comes when you find that sweet spot inside you, that place which knows things that your logical mind cant possibly know, that sense of intuitive guidance that defies the odds - that place of truth.  The place of TRUITY - where - TRUTH, RESTORES, UNDERSTANDING, INCREASING, TRUST, YES!............and the truth is we are Awesome beings, with the power to create our lives just as we want them to be ~ but first we must understand the law of Attraction - then life begins! I used to live a rather unfulfilling life when I was trying to fit in, trying to be like everyone else. 

I lived in the country with a husband and kids, and I am  not saying that having a family wasn’t in itself fulfilling, but I had a dream a vision a passion, and yet in the beginning I had no way to know how to make it happen, just raw energy, desire, passion, determination and relatively - no skills at all.  But the more I tried to make “it” happen the more obstacles and challenges seemed to come my way.  What does it take to succeed? Well first it takes the courage to develop your intuition and the fortitude to follow it; in addition to that you have to believe - in yourself. 

Cultivate an attitude supported by faith that anything is possible and everything is probable and keep in mind, no matter what happens in life - it’s all good!   No matter what happens you must stay positive in your mind: because it’s the mind chatter that can build or sink and empire.   Speaking of attitude, I suppose I am lucky in that I inherited my mother’s strong constitution, and "give up," has never been in my vocabulary.  I hang in there when others would have long abandoned ship and run for the hills.  I suppose I could say I am a good person to have on your team, as long as were fighting for the same values, principles and ethics.   

Life has helped me learn turn every obstacle into an opportunity and this is what you have to learn to do if you are to make a wonderful life out of one that currently sucks!   One of my friends Annie, once said to me, that my theme song should be “I get knocked down and I get up again, isn’t nothing going to keep me down!”   Well I must admit that sometimes it hasn’t been that easy to keep hold of my vision, its been a very interesting life evolution! The biggest mistake I have ever made in my lifetime has been looking for other people’s approval and wanting confirmation that “what I wanted was ok, and, what I was doing would work out” I wanted the world to provide me with reassurance that “it was o.k. to dream the impossible dream,” and that there was a place in this world for someone who genuinely simply cares about people. 

The qualities which ultimately would ensure my survival turned out to be my persistence,( I never gave up on my dream) and (my commitment to the fact I had something good to offer) and (that above all I believed and still believe that I am doing what I was born to do) fulfilling my destiny. So many people give up their dream because it’s difficult, so many give up when success is about to happen. It just gets too hard, support is non existent, and when you’re looking at doing something that most other people wouldn’t even dream of, of course you’re not going to get understanding from your friends or family!   

The big question is ~ when is it madness to continue towards a vision and when is enough enough?  How can you tell?   I suppose Einstein asked himself the same question many times, yet for me I would scream and cry and pound the pillow saying I cant do this any more and then a few moments later, Eureka; I would have a BFO (blinding flash of the obvious) of just what I needed to do next, to overcome the problem, and it just kept happening day after day, year after year.  I know I could have not learnt all that I have learnt any other way. 

My journey like for so many other people has been to hell and back, and might I add to that I went without a canoe.  Building a dream begins with a concept, and idea, a vision, along the way there is learning, exploring, redefining, and gathering of skills, knowledge and insight.  Ultimately what you think you will create, what you fear you will manifest in order to become free of the fear, this has been my path sort of purification by fire I suppose.  That is why I started this site, to help others, to inspire, mentor, support those who also have a vision of a better tomorrow, a better world, a better life. The one thing I have lost along the way is my emotional involvement of loss;  I have been through so much in my life, that now only the positive belief in miracles remains.  If something breaks, I simply say, ok now we can do it better this time!  Attachment to the negative is burnt and gone, I no longer take every criticism personally, and my psyche survived because above all I believed in myself and what I wanted to achieve.   All of the emotions, all of the insecurities have now left me, nothing has changed, but everything has changed.  Ultimately I believe that what I have to give this world – this world needs, and with that I have the courage to go all the way.  

So my friends I encourage you to “GET HIGH, ON LIFE. DARE TO DREAM THE IMPOSSIBLE DREAM,”  learn all you can about developing your sense of self and your gut feel about situations - your intuition can save the day only when you get your personal fears and agendas out of the way.  Go for it - but be prepared at the end of the day expect one heck of a ride!  Remember, no one promised it would be easy!  

We have every right to be individuals, who live abundant lives, its time to let go of the limits in thinking that our forefathers passed to us, we can do anything we want to!  I am not saying it will necessarily be easy, however, anything is possible and everything is probable, and yes, you do create what you think about, so focus on what you want not what you don’t want! That is the secret…….   Many Blessings Truity.